2022 – 2024
What happened between 2022 and 2024
In April 2022, Ginny relocated to Miami with her family — stepping away from the Singapore birth community she had spent two decades building, to begin again somewhere entirely new.
She chose to homebirth Hudson in Miami — in a city where she knew no one. Her vision was intimate: her husband, her then 21-year-old son Kieran, and their three chocolate labradors present for the birth. Having completed studies at the National Midwifery Institute and spent time as part of a traditional homebirth midwifery apprenticeship with the Amish community, she understood birth physiology from the inside. She engaged a midwife with one request: to step back unless truly needed. The midwife attended the final twenty minutes.
She did not arrive with a ready-made support network. She built one — from nothing — after Hudson was born.
And then breastfeeding nearly broke her.
Hudson was born with a severe tongue tie. A laser frenulotomy was performed at five days postpartum — but breastfeeding remained painful. And then came the second layer: Ginny has sensory processing differences that make her unable to respond to breast pumps. In a situation where most lactation advice defaults to 'pump to build supply,' that option simply did not exist for her.
Despite having helped thousands of mothers breastfeed successfully, despite being a recognised expert in lactation support, she could not establish her full milk supply for four months. She relied on donated breastmilk in the gap. She troubleshot, sought help, and sat with the humbling reality of not being able to fix something she had fixed for others countless times.
There is something profound about being brought to your knees by the very thing you are known for. It does not diminish expertise. It deepens compassion.
She kept going. Her milk came in fully at four months. Hudson is still breastfeeding today, approaching his fourth birthday — a quiet testament to what perseverance through the hardest stretch looks like.
She also took three years of something that birth professionals rarely allow themselves: real maternity leave. She homeschools Hudson. She rebuilt slowly, intentionally, and on her own terms.
She returned to Singapore in late 2024 — and with her came everything those years had given her: a renewed sense of what families face when they feel unsupported and far from home, a deepened humility about how hard early parenthood truly is, and a rekindled passion for helping families reach what she calls the other side.
If you found Four Trimesters years ago and are returning — welcome back.
If you are new here — you have found the right place.